~~ in LOVE ~~

last friday nite, on my boredom, sleepy for the almost 2 weeks lack of sleeps, long-waiting (gosh i hate the waiting job), alone in the office (once again i don't like waiting), looking for something to read ... find Seputar Indonesia morning newspaper in the receptionist desk ...

the theme is about 'can marriage last without love'

interesting theme , has several articles and survey result concerning their title ...

One line catch my attention ~ something like this ~

"It takes only one minute to fall in love, but it takes a whole life time to maintain it"

wondering mind of me --- yup, yup, it is very true especially for me, whom i can categorized as being too easy to be infatuated under certain nice atmosphere and circumstances ...

i put this line in my fb status .. my friend even added their comments  :

"it takes also a minute to fall out of love"

"it takes second to break somebody heart"

all are soo true, aren't they ...

if i may elaborate the first line of the phrase ... "it takes only a minute to fall in love"

i think it's good if we can feel the "In Love"  - isn't that what we call love at first sight , and soo many believe in love at the first sight ... btw, Love at the First Sight is certainly different than First Love ...

this is from my state of mind when "falling in love" feeling suddenly attack  (notes: i think falling in love doesn't have to be two ways connection) -- when someone can makes you fall in love (am not talking about any kind of relationship - just a simple situation)

there are times whenever i am being in love ~ it seems that my world become better suddenly ~ don't even have to care bout the feeling of person being in love to ~ when the world become better, everything else seems and sounds beautiful, sound nice and harmonious ~ smile becomes the natural motto because whenever, whomever face would be full of smile all the time and every time at all conditions ~ love songs being played time to time, in fact every time ~ routine daily life becomes lighter and more flowery ~ and i love this last but not least part : able to tolerate more kinds of people and more kinds of situations ~ other people irritating or annoying, just let it be, the world still looks beautiful.

~~ wOw wOw ~~ 

once i write this down, i realized how 'being in love' help me to live a cheerful and easier life -- i should be in the state of feeling often then -- no negative impact whatsoever -- if there is effect, seems like all are positive effects and impacts -- if only -- that's the positive sides of being in love (single-sided love) -- the real two way love is just not as simple as the above

davichi

was looking for this lyric (in korean romanization) for a week - glad i find it finally - think the title of the song is Crazy Woman (or is it Lingering Attachment ?) -it's a nice song anyway - takes a while to figure out which one is the name of the album, which is the singer ..

Crazy Woman (feat. 김연지 from Seeya) - Davichi (다비치)
Album: Davichi in WonderlandCrazy Woman (feat. 김연지 from Seeya) - Davichi (다비치)
if open from the youtube, can see the english translation too

[Lee Haeri]
Uhl mah nah sah rang haet neun deh
Nuh hah nah eh ool go oot go nuh ddaem eh sah neun deh
Geu ruhn nae ga jee gyuh wuot nee geu ruhn nae ga shil huh jyut nee
Nuh bakk eh moh reu duhn nal wuae buh ree nee

[Lee Jungmin]
Uhl mah nah joh ahs uht neun deh
Noo goo boh dah nal ah ggi go nal jee gyuh juot neun deh
Jung mal nal ddu nag a nee jung mal nal eej eun guh nee
Geu ruhn sah ram eel jool mool lat neun deh

[Lee Haeri]
Sah rang eh ool uh do sa rang eh ah pah do
Guaen chan ah nuh reul nuh moo sah rang han nae tash ee yah
Juhn boo sa chee yeot na boa nam eun guhn sang chuh bboon een deh
Doo noon eh go een noon mool bboon een deh

[Kim Yeonji]
Uh dduh ke nuhl jee wuo uh dduh ge nuhl eej uh
Ga seum eh nee ga nam gin sang chuh deul ee hyoong tuh jil tehn deh
Seh uol ee gah do ah mool jee anh eul gguh gat ah
Nuh ohb shin ahn dueel guht gat ah

[Lee Jungmin]
Oo ree ga wuae he uh jee nee
Moh deun sah ram deul ee oo reel boo ruh wuo haet neun deh
Han buhn man duh saeng gag hae han buhn mahn duh gee uhk hae
Nal uhl mah nah sah rang haes uht neun jee

[Lee Haeri]
Sah rang eh ool uh do sa rang eh ah pah do
Guaen chan ah nuh reul nuh moo sah rang han nae tash ee yah
Juhn boo sa chee yeot na boa nam eun guhn sang chuh bboon een deh
Doo noon eh go een noon mool bboon een deh

[Kim Yeonji]
Uh dduh ke nuhl jee wuo uh dduh ge nuhl eej uh
Ga seum eh nee ga nam gin sang chuh deul ee hyoong tuh jil tehn deh
Seh uol ee gah do ah mool jee anh eul gguh gat ah
Nuh ohb shin ahn dueel guht gat ah

[Lee Haeri] Mee chee doh rog nuh mahn sah rang haet neun deh

[Lee Haeri & Lee Jungmin] Wuae nal ee ruhk keh ah peu geh mahn ha nee

[Lee Haeri] Sah rang eun ggeut nahs uh oo reen dah ggeut nas uh

[Kim Yeonji] Sah rang hah myuhn ahn duae haeng bok ha myuhn ahn duae
Ni gah nah uhb shee haeng bok hah myuhn na neun uh duhk hah rah go

[Lee Haeri] Geu mahn hah go ship eun deh sah rang do mee ryuhn gga jee doh
Moh doo buh ree go ship eun deh

[Lee Jungmin] Geu rae doh no reul mot eeh juh

A Thought which came out from a Wedding Invitation

Receive a Wedding Invitation today,

since the nick name of the person it's not familiar for me,

then start to look further more inside,

.....

ooooo ,,, that's the guy who will get married,

then i look again in the name of the bride ... because i was thinking she must be this female i knew, but ou no ,, it's not her name ,,,

start to wonder and think and rethink and rethink again for quite some minutes .........  

hhmmm,,,,   do i miss something, don't i usually see this guy dating and in relationship with a female i know,  for all i know they've been together in relationship for almost 3 years already --------   i remember seeing how close and nice they are together for several times, quite recently --- like not more than 3 months ago,,,  hhhmmm.... then i ask one or two person secretly trying to confirm what i remember ,, from them i know that i do remember this person right ... 

the reason why i talk about this is not about to judge somebody - nothing like that at all, 

 i am looking at it , thinking and analyzing and make it into a conclusion --- maybe a sentimental conclusion at the moment :

Man (meaning human being) makes plan, but then again who would have known how it will turn out how it will happen in the future, can be according to man's plan, but can be totally different than the plan  ...  and i'm not talking about some times way later on in the future,, sometimes it just have time difference in one month, or one week, or even one day or one second.

~~~ The time so called TOMORROW, we never know how life will turn out for us~~~

When i think deeper about it , naturally i am also thinking that  why should we even bother to make plans if the reality turn out to be different ... whether or not we have made the right choice for our best future, we also don't know, as this world is keep moving on, keep rotating ........   

It becomes the opposite of the religious belief, isn't it ..... but i guess that's the beauty of our life, only God knows how it will turn out, because He is The One who makes the Master Plan, what He ask from us just to believe that His Plan are not just good for us, but always The Best for us , either we realize it or not, and His Plan for us always come At The Right Time and The Right Moment ...

'That's what i call The Mistery of the Universe' ~ whether I like it or not ~ whether I am aware of it or not ~ The Mistery can best be The Miracles if we keep believing and still in the faith.

For God has been good to me all these times,  Miracles either it's in the form of Blessings, Knowledge, Protection or something else keep happening in my life, and for all those, i am so grateful to My God.

Something happened and it had been my regrets for all these years - more than a decade i kept on asking and sometimes even judge myself, but again My God is so Good, out of the blue i came to know that ANSWER of why i did not take my life walking into that route. 

So it still applies : 

" Keep Believe and the Miracles come to you ~ 

Miracles happen when we believe it will come"

change or not

i had the urge to change the template of my blog sometimes ago,

now when i open and look at it,

i think i still like the way it looks,

the template looks organized and neat (for me, at least)

this rubbish really not important enough to be written down,

i guess i need something to do with the blog

soooooo

change or not change 

???????????????????

probably i need to browse for templates first,

then decide later on

Where is that novel writer, Ilana Tan?

tiba-tiba ...

kangen banget ...

sama yang namanya ilana tan

novel2nya , of course ...

apa kabarnya ya setelah the 4 season finished,

does she write another set of novel

i for sure want to read her novel again 

if she still writes ..

just recently finished reading novel "Perfect Stranger"

and few others

not as impactful as one of the Ilana Tan's novel

that's probably why i miss her style of writing ..

because i want to read something like 'Autumn in Paris' or 'Winter in Tokyo'

just to remind me of those 4 novels

unfortunately long time ago, 

after i bought the book one by one,

keluarlah 4 buku itu dalam 1 kemasan cantik di Gramedia

yang hampir aja buat lupa daratan mau beli lagi,

but it's a good thing my daughter reminded me at the time ... 

"kenapa kita mo punya 2 sets of novel yg sama"...

yup, that's rite ....