~~ in LOVE ~~

last friday nite, on my boredom, sleepy for the almost 2 weeks lack of sleeps, long-waiting (gosh i hate the waiting job), alone in the office (once again i don't like waiting), looking for something to read ... find Seputar Indonesia morning newspaper in the receptionist desk ...

the theme is about 'can marriage last without love'

interesting theme , has several articles and survey result concerning their title ...

One line catch my attention ~ something like this ~

"It takes only one minute to fall in love, but it takes a whole life time to maintain it"

wondering mind of me --- yup, yup, it is very true especially for me, whom i can categorized as being too easy to be infatuated under certain nice atmosphere and circumstances ...

i put this line in my fb status .. my friend even added their comments  :

"it takes also a minute to fall out of love"

"it takes second to break somebody heart"

all are soo true, aren't they ...

if i may elaborate the first line of the phrase ... "it takes only a minute to fall in love"

i think it's good if we can feel the "In Love"  - isn't that what we call love at first sight , and soo many believe in love at the first sight ... btw, Love at the First Sight is certainly different than First Love ...

this is from my state of mind when "falling in love" feeling suddenly attack  (notes: i think falling in love doesn't have to be two ways connection) -- when someone can makes you fall in love (am not talking about any kind of relationship - just a simple situation)

there are times whenever i am being in love ~ it seems that my world become better suddenly ~ don't even have to care bout the feeling of person being in love to ~ when the world become better, everything else seems and sounds beautiful, sound nice and harmonious ~ smile becomes the natural motto because whenever, whomever face would be full of smile all the time and every time at all conditions ~ love songs being played time to time, in fact every time ~ routine daily life becomes lighter and more flowery ~ and i love this last but not least part : able to tolerate more kinds of people and more kinds of situations ~ other people irritating or annoying, just let it be, the world still looks beautiful.

~~ wOw wOw ~~ 

once i write this down, i realized how 'being in love' help me to live a cheerful and easier life -- i should be in the state of feeling often then -- no negative impact whatsoever -- if there is effect, seems like all are positive effects and impacts -- if only -- that's the positive sides of being in love (single-sided love) -- the real two way love is just not as simple as the above